Wednesday, 18 December 2013

Learning to drive..... attempting anyway.

Hello and welcome to my latest blog. I hope everyone is well and ready for Christmas which is soon to be upon us. In this issue I talk about both my positive and negative experiences which occurred in the time frame between leaving school and starting at university. The famous dyspraxics section also continues, this time taking  a look at famous photographer David Bailey. As usual I hope you enjoy the blog and feedback is welcomed.

Learning to drive.

Taking driving lessons was a challenge which was always likely to  prove particularly problematic, and so after I had turned seventeen as  I looked ahead to my first lesson my emotions were a mixture of optimism and uncertainty. As it happened the first lesson was fairly positive admittedly not getting out of second gear meant progress was slow but all in all I considered the lesson a success. It was to prove a rare high however as the lessons progressed in difficulty so my struggle intensified. I struggled with the gear changes and clutch control, the clutch would regularly produce some particularly interesting smells and noises!  Learning manoeuvres proved especially challenging. It took me a long time to get close to learning to reverse correctly, three point turns would often turn into six point turns and even uphill starts often accidently became uphill reverses! Eventually however after a lot of hard work I was told to book my driving test, and with again an element of optimism I did. The test was a complete disaster, nerves got the better of me and my uphill start again went south. Needless to say I failed and then failed again. Eventually after an unnamed number of unsuccessful attempts I'd had enough and took a long and for now indefinite break from driving.  In the future the plan is learn to drive an automatic. I'm told it will be much easier to drive but for now, the thought of attempting to reverse round corners again is not an appealing one.

Howzat

I had first taken up cricket at the age of 14 and had had some success representing my local village side but it wasn't until my college days that I really benefited from the sport not just through improving my cricket skills but also self confidence. I had joined the cricket academy at Truro College. Here I found that playing cricket in some of the lower divisions meant that the majority of other cricketers had played to a much higher standard than I had. This was a little difficult to begin with as I really struggled with the technical aspects of some of the coaching and privately questioned whether I was good enough to be part of the set up.  However I soon settled in and enjoyed two fantastic years. It had been clear pretty early on that I was prone to clumsy and chaotic moments, chasing a ball flat out in an indoor fielding drill resulted in me disappearing through  a fire escape door as my momentum meant stopping was out of the question, upon my return however I promptly threw the ball back as if nothing had happened to much hilarity! During my time there, through huge amounts of encouragement from coaches and fellow players alike my confidence grew enormously and I have made some fantastic friendships and my cricketing skills also improved dramatically although some people who have played against me since may argue otherwise..... Presently I'm still loving cricket playing for my local side and am usually selected as the opening bowler, something I feel very proud of and enjoy playing for the village team. We have progressed brilliantly, moving through the divisions and the second team improved beyond recognition. My time in the academy proved once again that facing up to challenges is often incredibly rewarding.











Famous Dyspraxic: David Bailey

Famous photographer David Bailey suffers from dyspraxia and has proved an inspiration to many despite disparaging comments from teachers in his school days. Since then he has gone on to photograph numerous household names including music groups The Beatles, Razorlight and the Kaiser Chiefs to name a few. He has also spent time as the chairman of the Dyspraxia Foundation and is further evidence that a disability should cause no  boundaries in peoples desire to achieve their dreams.

That's it for this time as usual I hope you enjoyed the issue all the best and have a great Christmas,
George

Thursday, 5 December 2013

The early days and even Harry's a dyspraxic !

Hello and welcome to the latest blog on a common but little known disability Dyspraxia.  I hope you are all well and have had a good week. Christmas is coming  which means the tree should be going up in our house soon. I'm not entirely sure on whether or not my ban on helping with the decorations has been lifted, last year I had was limited to a predominantly watching brief due to an unfortunate incident with a bubal which had been  a particular favourite  in our household. Needless to say it no longer hangs proudly on the tree. This week I talk about my early years after my diagnosis and introduce  a new section highlighting celebrities who also suffer from Dyspraxia in this edition Daniel Radcliffe, I as usual hope you enjoy the blog.
 
The early days.
 
Being diagnosed with Dyspraxia provided an answer for my problems in my early years particularly why logical tasks had caused such confusion. Shortly after this, I began to take part in two activities which brought me large amounts of enjoyment but also plenty of frustration as well. Fishing a hobby which requires plenty of dexterity is still an activity I really like to do when an opportunity arises. When I first started going years earlier with my dad and brother we went far more regularly and the feeling of satisfaction after catching  a fish and getting to grips with the various equipment was enormous many happy days have been spent on the lake bank or sometimes out  at sea. I did however test the patience of dad on a regular basis, presenting him with some outstanding tangles which often left him at a loss to understand how exactly the latest incident had occurred. He did though always smile after solving the conundrum and setting me on my way to cast again.
 
 
Taken a few years ago myself with a Green Tench, note the hat hair !
 
Learning to play the guitar also provided a challenge as a result of the Dyspraxia. Again the feeling of learning to play a piece of music and overcoming the presented challenge was fantastic. It wasn't without frustration however learning new things would take me far longer than it took others, and even learning to hold the guitar correctly was a little chaotic. I played the guitar for several years even passing some exams in the process practice makes perfect !
 
Learning to accomplish the tasks presented as a result of these activities was certainly something to be proud off. It wasn't all fun in those first few years however putting a brave face on after the latest stumble, breakage or similar debacle could become incredibly tiresome especially when people couldn't or in some cases maybe didn't want to understand how exactly the disability affects people and as a result my self esteem could at times run pretty low. Close friends knew the real reasons however and general banter never over stepped the mark.  I've always tried to take on the disability with good humour  and am more than happy to laugh at myself if something happens which is genuinely funny. I think this is the best way to approach the disability don't ever let it get on top of you and doubt yourself. 
 
Celebrity Dyspraxic's Part 1: You're a wizard Harry, you're also a Dyspraxic.
 
World famous actor Daniel Radcliffe star of the Harry Potter films is also a sufferer of dyspraxia. In the article below he is quoted joking about wishing Velcro on shoes would take off, a result of a struggle to tie shoe laces and admitting that the disability severely affected his confidence and turned to acting as a way of re establishing it.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1046031/Harry-Potter-The-brain-disorder-means-I-8217-t-tie-shoelaces.html.

That is all for this week, I hope you enjoyed the blog, have a great week,
George.